When a complaint comes in, you do not have to change your fundraising.
In fact, you probably shouldn’t change your fundraising. Let me take that worry off your plate.
Here’s the situation: a complaint comes in, there’s a flurry of anxious emails, people get worried, and sooner or later someone proposes that “we should pull the campaign” or “well, we can’t use that phrase again.”
But if an organization follows those instincts, it builds a habit that will keep the organization small. It sets a precedent that 1 or 3 people’s opinions can drive the organization’s communication strategy.
Let’s not let that happen! Here’s what to do instead…
First, realize that a complaint is a fee, not a fine. (A fee is something you pay in order to do something, a fine is something you pay when you’ve done something wrong.)
As you communicate with more donors more often, you will get complaints. This isn’t a sign of failure; it’s a sign that you’re talking to more people. And any time you’re talking to more people, more things happen: more complaints, more gifts, more returned envelopes with bad addresses, more unsubscribes, more unexpected large gifts.
So when a complaint comes in, let’s not think, “we’ve done something wrong.” Instead, think, “we’re operating at scale now, and these things are going to happen.”
Second, realize that the complainer doesn’t speak for all donors.
I’ve heard it called “the most expensive assumption in fundraising” – treating one loud voice as representative of the thousands of donors who you didn’t hear from. But that often happens when a complaint is received. You hear things like, “If one person said this, imagine how many thought it but didn’t write in.”
You want to give each complaint the same amount of weight that you give each gift. Don’t let one complaint be more important than all the gifts that came in.
Finally, right-size your organization’s reaction.
Complaints almost never actually damage an organization, but an organization’s response to a complaint – the breathless drama and worry, the time wasted, the effective fundraising cancelled – has a very real chance to reduce the organization’s impact.
So, build a process that gives a complaint its due. Don’t escalate it. Contact the donor and apologize. Listen. Ask if they’d like any changes in their communication preferences. Tell them that their gifts have been incredibly helpful. Match the energy of the response to the size of the issue.
You are allowed to handle a complaint in 15 minutes and get back to work.
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Your beneficiaries or cause are counting on you to keep raising money. That requires communicating with more and more donors. And communicating with more donors will, occasionally, generate a complaint. That’s the deal.
You don’t have to change your messaging. You just need a process, and the confidence that one complaint is not a verdict on your fundraising.
PS — If you’d like to know more about what causes complaints, have a script for how to respond to a complainer, and help setting up a system for handling them, click here to download our free eBook, “The Sanity-Saving Magic of Understanding Donor Complaints.”
