Donor-centrism gets a lot of bad press these days. (I even stay away from using the term sometimes because it can cause people to throw babies out with the bathwater.)
However, as Fundraisers and nonprofits, it’s still ethical and smart to honor an individual donor’s involvement in the work of a nonprofit. And there are two main ways to do that:
- Write directly and clearly about their involvement. In other words, don’t write only about the organization, the beneficiary, or the community. Include the donor! When you’re asking for support, tell the donor “your gift will help pay for _______.” We’ve not inflated the donor into a “savior,” we’ve accurately described their involvement.
- Report back in a way the donor understands. A person helping to fund your mission deserves to hear, in language and concepts that they don’t need a Master’s degree to understand quickly, how their gift made a difference.
If your donors really are your partners, treat them like partners.
Because in any partner relationship – spouse, business partner, co-worker, whatever – sometimes you briefly put your partner’s needs above your own. That’s all you’re doing here.
There’s no getting around the idea that from the standpoint of an individual donor, they aren’t “one of your donors,” you are one of their nonprofits.
When you talk to individual donors about their involvement, they are more likely to remain involved.

